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Thursday, December 31, 2009

HAPPY NEW YEAR'S EVE !!!

Hi Friends!

I don't know if I'll make it until midnight tonight, but the kids are excited about staying up late! We had a nice day today. I woke everyone up at 10 a.m. -- and they thought that was too early!
We got ready and went to the Carnegie Art Museum here in Oxnard. It is a nice little museum and was not busy at all. In fact, we were the only people there. We had the entire museum to ourselves. The kids all got really into it -- especially Molly and Isaac who were sketching their own pictures based on what they saw.

The museum was in a sort of town square -- so we stopped at Starbuck's afterwards for coffee and hot chocolate. We then headed home as the cleaners were coming at 3 p.m.

It was very nice to have the house cleaned, and Nate made out well. The cleaners found his missing GameBoy lodged in between Cameron's mattress and bedframe. Nate had searched just about everywhere for it.

In other exciting news, Cameron's Pokemon game for the Wii came today. It was delayed in the mail, so he received a picture of it for Christmas. The kids were thrilled and they've been playing that since we got home.

I did some organizing of my homeschooling materials. Bill went to Simi Valley. He needed to go to a bank there for the Boy Scouts. He was still the only one authorized to sign checks, and they needed him to change that since he and Cam aren't doing Scouts anymore.

Bill just got home and is making a Mexican casserole for dinner. I just reserved tickets for the Getty Villa in Malibu for 10 a.m. on Saturday. Cameron went last year with his English class, and he's been begging to take the rest of his family. I had promised him we'd go over summer, but that didn't work out due to my chemo. So, now we can finally keep our promise to him.

I'll blog again next year:-)
2010 has got to be better than 2009 was for me!!!

Much Love,
Michele

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

HELLO!!!

Hi Friends!

I seem to be blogging every-other day these days. I'm doing my best, but Christmas vacation just seems to be dashing by very quickly.

Yesterday, I drove into Thousand Oaks and got my bloodwork orders from Dr. Cohen. Then I went to the lab to get it done. Luckily, they were able to find a vein on the first try -- very unusual for me. I was really missing that PICC line and the home nurses though. It was much nicer when they came to my house, took blood from the PICC line (no pain!), and then delivered it to the lab at St. John's in Oxnard for me. Oh well, those were the good old days, I guess. Instead, I was receiving phone calls from Cam that the boys were fighting. He and Molly had to separate them. Molly took Nate to the park, and Cam and Isaac hung out at home. I paid them all with Slurpees and cookies from 7-11.

My entire body hurts after 3 days of working out with the Wii Fit, so I decided to take the day off. I'm also having a lot of trouble with my feet swelling -- doesn't seem to matter if I exercise or not. By about 4p.m. they have swollen up hugely. I already take Lasix and may need to increase my dosage. We'll see what my doctor says -- I have an appointment to see Dr. Cohen in 2 weeks -- that's when the bloodtest results should be back. So, either we'll have an answer or I'll start on a stimulant to keep me awake during the day.

Bill brought home Chinese food for dinner tonight, so everyone was happy. The kids and I just finished cleaning up their rooms. We had to make a path for the cleaners who are coming tomorrow. They didn't come last week because they come on Fridays and that was Christmas. So, by this week the house really needs a cleaning!

Bill took tomorrow off. We're planning to go to the Carnegie Art Museum here in Oxnard on a little field trip. I think it's time to drag the kids away from the Wii.

Much Love,
Michele

Monday, December 28, 2009

I NEED RITALIN TO KEEP UP WITH THE KIDS...

Hi Friends!

Seriously -- I didn't get around to blogging yesterday, because I slept most of the day. So, this morning I called Dr. Cohen. I'm going in for bloodwork tomorrow. Then if nothing weird is going on in the bloodwork, which might explain the non-stop fatigue -- he'll prescribe a stimulant to keep me awake during the day. It's not like I want to be on another drug, but sleeping all the time leaves me little time to spend with my family. I had to laugh because Nate's latest poem started with, "My mom likes to nap, and when I was little I sat on her lap." I don't want to be remembered as a Mom who slept all the time.

Today we all got up around 10 a.m. -- gotta love time off from school:-} Poor Bill had already left for work. We spent most of the day playing on the Wii Fit. I am doing yoga and I think I may have overdone it today as I am already sore. They also have some fun balance games on it for me -- challenging due to the damage done by lupus to my nervous system. After I did the balance tests -- the Wii told me that my balance age was 54! I tried not to take it personally since I have a disability. However, if I'm ever stopped by the police -- I'll need a breathalizer test to prove I'm not drunk.

I'm up in Isaac and Nate's room typing this on Isaac's netbook once again. He's taking a bath, and he doesn't like to be upstairs by himself. It's also convenient for me to be up here as I'm working on laundry and the laundry room is across the hall. In fact, I can hear the dryer buzzing at me...so I'll sign off and get going on the clean clothes. It tends to pile up around here. But the kids are good with helping me do it. They just need friendly reminders or they would wait until there was no clean clothes left.

Much Love,
Michele

Saturday, December 26, 2009

ON THE SECOND DAY OF CHRISTMAS,,,

My true loves gave to me ... a nice, relaxing day at home!!!

Hi Friends!

We didn't do much today. We slept in this morning, and the kids spent the day playing with their new Christmas gifts. And I'm still playing with Isaac's netbook while laying in bed. The boys are hanging out in my room with me and watching TV. Cam and Molly are upstairs playing Pokemon GameBy games together.

Bill made stuffed porkchops with mashed potatoes and corn for dinner. After dinner we watched the newest Star Trek movie together. Bill and I had seen it in the movie theater when it came out. But the kids hadn't seen it yet. So, he bought it along with some other movies and Star Trek episodes for our new blue ray player.

Other than that -- nothing new to report. I'm still too tired -- slept in late--took a long afternoon nap--and I'm ready to go to bed soon.

We'll talk more tomorrow.
Much Love,
Michele

Friday, December 25, 2009

MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!

Hi Friends!!!



I hope you all are having a great day and spending it with those you truly love! I am laying in bed and typing this on Isaac's new netbook computer. It's really cool, and he is being very nice and insisting on sharing it with me when I want to blog. I know -- who would think a 7 year old needs a laptop computer? But Isaac is not your typical 7 year old, and Bill got a good deal on it during the black Friday sales.

We've had a pleasant Christmas Eve and Christmas Day here at the Blands. Yesterday morning I was awakened by Doctor Cohen's phone call. I can always count on him to call before any holiday to check on my health. I told him I was doing OK, but I am still struggling with fatigue. We talked a bit, and I'm supposed to call him on Monday if it's still not better. Then we can formulate a plan -- we've talked about me taking Ritalin before in order to counteract the sleepiness during the day. Dr. Cohen had thought my excessive sleepiness was due to the recent pneumonia, and he speculated that I was still recovering from that. But it is also a symptom of my lupus and fibromyalgia as well as a side effect of many of the drugs I take. So, who knows -- but I don't have much time available to me when I'm sleeping 12-15 hours per night. And I still wake up feeling tired.

Well, enough of that sob story. After talking with my doctor early Thursday morning, I went back to sleep until much later. At 12:15 I had an appointment at the DMV to get my permanent handicapped placard and license plates. So, Bill and I drove over there. The placard was no trouble, but in order to get handicapped plates for the truck, we needed to add my name to the registration and title. We had forgotten the title at home. So, since it wasn't busy -- the DMV employee suggested we just run home and get it. I asked if Bill could come back alone, and she said that would be fine. She showed me where to sign the forms. But of course when Bill came back several hours later, that employee was gone, and the new one said we needed to wait 3 days after the placard was issued so that I was "in the system" as handicapped. It was really annoying because when we get the new license plates we must "surrender" the old ones. So, Bill had already taken off the license plates and then had to put them back on. Gotta love the DMV!

I then came home and collected the children who wanted to go to the 99 cents store. We found a bunch of treasures. The kids bought a bunch of stuff for each other, and I bought some goodies for the kids' stockings. It was kind of wild and crazy with the 5 of us shopping and hiding things in the cart under my jacket. Bill thought it was funny when I came home $93 later as my budget was supposed to be $30. Theoretically, he told me it should be easy to see how much you've spent at the dollar store where everything is the same price. But, I really didn't care and was just glad to survive the experience.

We then wrapped up the presents. And took some time to admire Bill's new Mac computer. He got a big bonus at work for being such a good employee, so he decided to spend it on a better computer for us. The kids now get our old one, which will be good as their old one had died. I just need to learn how to use a Mac!

Bill went and did some last minute shopping at Fry's. And the kids and I did our chores and got ready for church. He picked us up at 6:15 with chicken from El Pollo Loco. So we ate dinner in the truck while we drove to Simi Valley for 7:00 church. After church we went to the Christmas house. There is a house in Simi Valley that is elaborately decorated for the holidays. And it's our Christmas Eve tradition to go there.

By the time we got home it was almost 10 p.m., but the little boys were all jazzed up about Christmas and they had a hard time falling asleep. When we finally got them down, Cameron played Santa Claus and ate all the cookies and put the presents under the tree. He even left notes from Santa. Molly was planning to help, but she fell asleep before the boys and decided to stay asleep.

We lucked out after a late night, and nobody woke up until 10 a.m. At that point, Isaac woke up and started a chain reaction. He woke up Nate, who woke up Molly, who woke up Cam, and then they all came downstairs to wake us up. We gained about another half-hour of sleep by telling them to check out their stockings. But by 10:30 we were up and opening presents. It was largely a Wii Christmas this year. The price finally came down enough for us to buy one. And then, of course, we needed the games and the controllers, etc. Bill even got me a Wii Fit, so I'm hoping to use if for exercise for me and PE for the kids.

So, of course, the kids were occupied for the rest of the day with their presents. We went out for dinner, but sadly the HomeTown Buffet was closed, so we had to settle for Denny's. The kids were happy with it, though, and they ate and ate.

Right now we're back home. The kids are playing MarioKart on the WII. In a few minutes, we're going to watch one of Cam's Christmas movies.

Happy Holidays!
Much Love,
Michele

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

THE EVE OF CHRISTMAS EVE...

Hi Friends!

I know...it's been a few days since I blogged. I've been taking advantage of the kids' Christmas Break. They've been happy and entertaining themselves. So, I have been resting up -- sleeping or just hanging out in bed for most of the days. I'm still really fatigued.

Today I did that until about 2 p.m. Then Cameron nicely volunteered to take Nate to the park where he was meeting some friends. Molly and Isaac kindly volunteered to be my cleaning helpers and picked up around the house with me. We don't have the cleaners coming this week as they usually come on Fridays. They offered to come on Dec. 24th in the morning, but I told them to just skip this week. I certainly don't want to get up early on Christmas Eve -- not even for a clean house. The day will be busy enough as it is.

For the rest of the day, the kids and I made Christmas cookies. First we made chocolate chunk cookies, and then we worked on Christmas cut-out sugar cookies. We had fun, and now everyone is relaxing except Bill. He is working on a present that needs to be assembled/gotten ready for Isaac. I finished wrapping presents yesterday. So, I think we're pretty set for the holidays.

I'll let you know what's up tomorrow on Christmas Eve ...

Much Love,
Michele

Saturday, December 19, 2009

6 DAYS UNTIL CHRISTMAS!!!

Hi Friends!

Where has the time gone? I woke up this morning to Isaac making a Christmas countdown poster! He is very excited!

So, yesterday -- the cleaners came in the morning. We also did our homeschooling earlier than usual. I knew I would need to take a nap in the afternoon in order to not fall asleep on my date with Bill in the evening. I almost always fall asleep in the movies.

I have started picking up Cameron from school each day. That way Bill can be home by 5 p.m. And since he makes dinner every night, it works out better to have him home earlier. It's nice for me to have 15-20 minutes to chat with Cam each day, too. He was especially excited yesterday as it was his last day of school before Christmas Break. The homeschoolers follow his schedule too -- However, I do have some field trips (educational) planned for all of us during the 2 week break. We are going to the Getty Museum (in L.A.) and to the Carnegie Art Museum and an Auto Museum (both here in Oxnard).

So, after picking up Cameron from school yesterday, I took a bath and got all beautified. We met up with some of Bill's friends at J.J. Brewsky's for dinner and drinks. We then went to see Avatar on opening night at the movie theater. We saw it in IMAX. While it wouldn't have been my first choice for movies, it actually was pretty good. And the kids did a good job at home with Cam and Molly babysitting the 2 boys.

Today I slept in. Bill had to go in for 2 MRIs this morning, so hopefully they will give his neurologist whatever answers she is looking for. She had changed his diagnosis from Multiple Sclerosis to Parkinson's, but now she's not so sure. We'll see what happens. I'm not sure how much more sickness this family can handle!

When Bill got home at around 1 p.m., I took Nate and Molly to the park. They made some new friends and I did my walking. I am desperately trying to lose my Prednisone weight and puffiness.

Bill and the kids are going to finish hanging our Christmas lights tonight and grill out for dinner. I want to work on some laundry and household chores. So, I guess there's nothing more that's particularly exciting to blog about.

Have a great night, and I'll try to blog more tomorrow!

Much Love,
Michele